....adat resam lambang kebanggaan bangsa...

Alhamdullilah..kerana aku diberikan peliang utk merakamkan suatu adat yg bole dikatakan adat lama bago penduduk brunei...malam berbedak diberikan namanya....

adat ini dilangsungkan sehari selepas majlis akad nikah...

ia mempunyai persamaan ssperti juga adat bertepung tawar atau adat merenjis air mawar yg dikenali di negara Malaysia....

7 jenis tepung berwarna warni digunakan.seperti gamba yang saya sertakan disini...

insya-Allah saya akan update lebih lanjut mengenai adat ini dan juga adat2 yg terdapat di negara Brunei ini.

mistake....

....everyone.....once awhile do any kind of mistake.....whether is a huge mistake or just a minor mistake...
no matter how big is the mistake ...we have to take it....admit to it...and most important is try not to repeat the same mistake again....

some people maybe just take it for granted....or maybe bcoz of egois...but some people take it too serious...
maybe bcoz of sceptism ....

the best is...admit our mistake...

life is goes on...no matter what our stand on the mistake...

there is a qoute.... i think a famous qoute about mistake.....

"dont worry to do a mistake...from the mistaken tat we done....we learn from it...."
and ofcos....nobody is prefect...thats for sure....

rezeki halal....

dlm apa jua kita lakukan utk mencari sesuap rezeki haruslah difikirkan keberkatannya....tiada cara atau jalan yg mudah untuk berjaya dlm hidup....

rezeki yang halal bukan saja memberikan keberkatan dalam hidup di dunia malah tiket utk berjaya di akhirat kelak...

apa yg kitakan di dunia ini akan dihisab....akan dipersoalkan di padang marsya kelak.... yg menjadi saksi kepada setiap perbuatan kita bukan kawan2 kita..bukan saudara mara kita....bukan ahli keluarga kita...tapi anggota tubuh badan kita...

bak kata perpatah melayu, bersusah suah dahulu....bersenang senang kemudian.....

diriwayatkan daripada Abdullah bin Mas'ud r.a katanya,"Nabi Muhammad S.A.W pernah bersabda," Janganlah kita ingin menjadi seperti orang lain kecuali dua orang ini. Pertama, orang yang diberikan boleh Allah kekayaan yang melimpah ruah dan dia belanjakan secara benar yakni di jalan yang adil dan berlandaskan perintah Allah. Kedua, orang yang diberikan Allah al-hikmah yakni ilmu dan dia berperangai.berkelakuan yang bersesuaian dan mengajarkan ilmu itu kepada orang lain."
hadis riwayat : al-bukhari.

setiap perbuatan kita ada matlamat nya masing-masing. tapi persoalan yg besar adalah apa yang kita inginkan dalam hidup ini...???
orang kaya dan orang.miskin ada ujian2 yg tersendiri. kerna ujian itu adalah untuk menguji keimanan kita terhadap Allah S.W.T

kaya hartavdan kaya ilmu bukan hanya menaikan nama kita atau kedudukan kita dalam masyarakat yakni sesama manusia tapi ia akan meningkatkan taraf kita disisi Allah sekiranya kita memanfaatkan apa yang kita perolehi itu dengan cara yang betul dan ikhlas di jalan Allah.

manfaatkanlah rezeki halal yang diperolehi ke jalan Allah.manfaatkanlah ilmu yang kita ada serta sebarkan ilmu itu utk org lain. insya-Allah . Allah akan membalaskannya secara berlipat kali ganda di dunia dan di akhirat kelak....insya-Allah

social network....

i think everyone knows about social network...doesnt matter the network we use on what platform...yahoo messenger.gmail network.flickr network. and so on....the biggest network is FACEBOOK....i think ...no doubt...hehehhe


young generation sure know about it... n the older generation like my dad oso have his own account....its link up the web around the globe...


some people say why i need a facebook? why i need to publish something on the web....which do not whether people will see or read or like it....


for me, its doesnt matter....some of the photographer i know, they blog. they oso have their own website. their fb id. or even their own hosting server....hehehe.... as photographer . its crucial to have a good base...good networking....coz u get paid by the client.


as other hobbyist like gundam.fishing.motorsport - carz or bikerz....and etc....they oso have their own ways to promote n advertise their hobby...and ofcos having a fb is a bonus...cos we can expand our horizon more bigger landscape.....hehehe...it os true?


having a social network such a facebook, sometimes help us to see other countries virtually....coz people will share their experience or their travelling journey in photos or write up....
such as flickr....its enjoying to see other photos from around.the globe.
and ofcos we.happy to see if our photo(s) been appreciate by other people...is not about the "award" that we received from.the others...
for.me is more like a social respond....cos of such beautiful photo shot taken....


no doubt facebook can be agent of chaos....why i say tat????
i mean .... people mis-use the facebook platform to "date" some gal or boys out there.... having affair......it can be a wrong if u already married.... but if u r single....go a ahead.....its still give an advantage coz ....... what..??? i think we millons of answer for tat...hehehehe....


most important is.....Honest....thats is the key in social network such as facebook .... and ofcos beware of scam running.among. facebookers....such as drug.scam. and so on...

last word...... enjoy having millons of friends around the globe.... coz from there we know.and.learn a lot.of.lesson.in-directly.


- cheers -

darwisy taqiuddin....

he's enjoying his fav. drink - anything with strawberry....heheehe.

weekend with kiddos.... Quality Time...

spending quality time with kids n wife is an awesome moments...i think everyone is planning for sonething - school holiday period for the kids n ofcos wife/husband....

last weekend i spend my weekend with my kids n my wife in bandar seri begawan. we went to a few places like pantai serasa in muara n go shopping in gadong mall...

plan to have a buggy ride in pantai serasa but due to my mistake....it was cancel...hehee... i didnt know that saturday afternoon is very quite bz over there....coz i tot thats it will be full oacked coz its a.weekend..hehhehe.... so have to plan for next visit...hehehe...

thanks to a friend , haji yus, who introduced me a nice place to have a dinner - lamb kebab...hehehe...nothing extra special but the place setup is very nice n different...hehhee...and the kebab oso sedap...hahaaha...

on sunday, we have a breakfast in LAMEE cafe in gadong....which one of my favourite place to eat hehee...having a no.1 dish - lamee soup.... my boy have a godzilla milo and deep fry prawn with french fries . my gal have to share the lamee with me...hehehe...
my wife having a tofu lamee...

late afternoon we make a move back to miri.
its a tiring weekend but i do anything for my fam.
they happy.im very happy. ;)


here some pica taken during the weekend....